Frustrated

Ok, so i am really frustrated and not quite sure what to do. First, my sister and my friend went on a trip this weekend and didn;t ask me to go. I was hurt by this alot. I'm told i'm being immature and a bunch of other crap. Well, my niece was saying she understood how i felt and was being sweet to me about the whole thing. Well, it turned out that, that was short lived. She constantly has been texting me and asking me all theses questions and i give her the short answers. I told my friend we were not friends anymore b/c she lied to me. Well, my niece keeps asking if i am friends still with my friend and all i said was no b/c she lied to me and that's something i don't stand for. She took that and told her mom, and also told her mom i was venting to her and a bunch of other crap that was totally not true and my sister texts me and says i need to stop and all this.

Hello, i didn't do anything. My niece is an instigator and likes getting people in trouble. Then, later on tonight, we had an event at church. Well, i ignored her the whole evening b/c i am upset at her for running her mouth and telling lies. I spoke to her once the whole evening and she calls her mom again and says things about me that are totally untrue. Well, then my sister text me and says can't you act like an adult and just ignore her. Um, what do you think i've been doing all night. I have 6 people who can attest to that fact. I then proceded to call my sister and tell her that i have ignored her all night but she keeps texting me and everything. Its a frickin soap opera and i'm sick of it.

She's my niece and i love her bur i'm sick of her always running her mouth and saying things that aren't true. She's 13 and i know its an awkward stage for her, but its frustrating and i don't know how to handle her anymore. Any advice is appreciated.

Haylee

Just a little note about Haylee. She is growing so fast. I miss her being a little bundle that i could just hold. But this age is fun. She is talking more and more every day. She is learning new words and is starting to put them together. I am just amazed of how smart she is. Haylee is a problem solver and figures things out so quickly. I am just so happy and blessed to have such a beautiful daughter. She is my life and i love her more then anything in the world.

My new job

So, I started my new job last week and i love it. The people i work with are great and i am enjoying myself. I'm tired and its hard balancing school with work but i'm getting it done. I am having a hard time leaving Haylee. She is having a hard time too with me leaving all the time. I hate hearing her scream and cry, yelling mommy when i leave. It just breaks my heart but i'm doing what i need to do for our future. I broke down the other day. I'm dealing with it though and this job is only temporary. I hate that it's not permanent but it's something for now.